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- It's not just yes or no
It's not just yes or no
Dig deeper
When you ask a question or answer one, it’s way better to dig a level deeper. Don’t dismiss things so quickly. You’ll grow more and win more if you spend an extra minute to consider a bit more. So, it’s not just yes or no. Instead, you should ask how much? (or how little).
Here’s a sample question…
Are you more focused on others or more focused on yourself?
Instead of saying ‘yes I got this’, maybe ask yourself…
How much is this true of me (or not)?
How much better could I get at this area of my life?
How much more could I deliver if I improved here?
How much do I care about this specific thing?
Of course, this works for any question. You can use it to pose questions as well
How much would you pay for this?
Are you more interested in the red one or the blue one?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how much could you see yourself living here?
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